Hm, happy stuff first. Been married just over a week now, which is nice. Had a really good day etc etc...
Unhappy stuff will be a bit more. For instance, the fact that my sister did not go to my wedding, because she does not talk to my mother, who was there. She did not send a card through any of my family either, and only sent a message through facebook the next day after I assume my father talked to her...
The fact that the UK Government just likes to complicate things, doing twice as much paperwork as you would think is possible. To make this shorter, basically I have no job and they are not giving me any help with money at the moment. My wife should have been able to bring her Finnish unemployment over with no problem, and it should be good for three months from when we moved. Those three months are up now, and still nothing on that either. It should be just a couple of days, but I have heard that at least a dozen times, before they find some other piece of paper they need signed, with the same information they originally got over three months ago.
Then there is the housing situation. When we moved here, my friend said he should be able to keep us in his rented house for 2-3 months with no bills, to give us a chance to get a job. Now he is moving in with his Fiance, and we are out of a place to stay. Nobody in my family has room apart from my mother, but her husband will for sure say we are not allowed to stay.
If we do get some money soon, it should be the whole three months worth for my wife, with which we could buy a caravan and stay there for a month or two maybe. But right now I am looking into homeless shelters. So far, most are for single people. It just keeps getting better. We have until the end of the month to sort something out. So far everything is against us, but I keep buying lotto tickets.
The only way we have survived so far is because my grandmother and mother have been giving us a bit of money for food and petrol, but even that is problematic. Friends of my grandmother, and my step dad seem to think we just do not want to work. Yeah, sure...We love surviving on 10-20 pounds a week, who wouldnt? Even if we find jobs, we would need money from somebody just for petrol to get us there until the first payday.
Sorry, I have not been online in a long time, and all that just came out. And I did leave a bit out too. Guh. I am just so close to snapping.